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My Friend the Lecturer
I’ve been thinking about The Lecturer lately. The name pretty much bears the description. The Lecturer doesn’t listen, he lectures, quite often at length. It can be frustrating, but the way I see it, The Lecturer really wants to help you. The Lecturer wants you to feel safe and supported because your knowledgeable, proactive friend […]
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What She Really Meant Was: What Should I Wear
June 20, 2020
There is so much miscommunication between men and women. If you take out all the awkwardness, hurt feelings and utter confusion, it’s absolutely hilarious. In other words it’s funny when the situation is somebody else’s problem. Though I can’t speak for the male point of view, I can help explain what many women are trying […]
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No Freaking Out Till Its Freak Out Time
November 14, 2016
“No Freaking Out Till It’s Freak Out Time.” This is the slogan for my Stay Calm Campaign. I’m sure I don’t have to explain that staying calm does not equate with being apathetic. Staying calm means being present, fully aware and in control. When we stay calm we remain open to possibilities, to seeing things […]
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The Gremlin
February 16, 2015
Today I’m here to talk about the part of your brain that’s an asshole. It’s the part no one likes to talk about. It’s not positive and it sure aint pretty. It always says stupid things such as: You can’t do that You suck No body likes you I have nothing to wear You have […]
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Just Say No To Sexism
October 22, 2012
I really appreciate my guy friends because they don’t like sexism. When they see a guy being disrespectful to a woman they’ll actually say something to the guy. The most recent example I can think of happened just this year at BurningMan. This creepy dude took my picture with out my permission. I said something […]
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When Momma’s Happy, Everybody’s Happy
June 21, 2012
This blog post is inspired by another co-worker of mine. As you know, I write to help men not scare women away. But as part of that I also write about what women like. This blog is a screaming example of what women like. My coworker was out of the country on a long trip. […]
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taking responsibility for your behavior
June 13, 2012
As I ask myself how to begin, 2 stories come to mind. The first is a story my co-worker just recently shared with me. She told me that when her boyfriend does something “you wouldn’t want your boyfriend to do” she brings it up to him and he just doesn’t do it any more. She […]
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Excerpt from Charm School for Men, The Importance of Girls Who Are Just Friends
April 21, 2012
I’ve been thinking about what to post as an excerpt for a few days now and surprisingly I haven’t been able to decide. The reason this is surprising to me is because I’m not one who usually has trouble making up her mind. Today I went to an event and there was a man sitting […]
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I Do What I Want! 
July 26, 2021
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